Friday, October 30, 2009

Trick or Treat: Sharing Jesus

This afternoon Jacob and I got busy getting ready for trick or treaters tomorrow night.  I'm not sure if we'll have any or how many we'll have, but we got ready, just in case.  I've spoken a lot about our pastor's series right now on Razing Hell, and I just feel the Holy Spirit prompting me to really be a really start perking up and being aware of what I can do.  

We had gone to New York City on a missions trip a couple of summers ago, and we had a bunch of tracts left over, really cool kids' tracts that we'd stocked up on for the trip.  Since candy is so expensive, I bought one big bag.  Then we went to the Dollar Shop and got their cute little Halloween treat bags for $1 a bunch.  While Jacob was filling some of the bags with candy and tracts, I made sugar cookies in the shapes of pumpkins, cats, bats, and ghosts....then I iced them (and we ate a few along the way:)).

Then we filled the leftover bags with a cookie and tract in each one.  All afternoon Jacob said how much fun he was having.  He had a job, and he went right to town on it.  I explained to him how we were sharing Jesus with the kids who came to get candy, and it was just neat to see him get so into it.  I don't know if we'll have enough, but we have a box full of bags ready to go.  I share all this, not to hype ourselves up, but to encourage you to think about how you can reach your trick or treaters tomorrow night.  It's time for us parents to start showing our kids what being a light really's time to perk up, to wake up, and to reach out.....

Fun Halloween Craft- Ghostwriter

Jacob and I had a fun art project this week.  We made Halloween cards for all the Grams and Gramps, and we made the Ghostwriter.  We actually got the craft idea from Disney Family Fun.  We didn't have Crayola Model Magic, so we improvised with Crayola Air Dry Clay, and it worked ok; a little bulky, but it was fun, nevertheless.:)  That green is supposed to be a fingernail; we didn't have a plastic fingernail either, so we just made one out of clay.  That's what being a homeschool Mommy is all about; improvising....finding creative ways to get the job done.  Most importantly, Jacob thought it was great, having a pen that looks like a ghostly finger....:)  Have a happy day!

Friday Funnies- Choir "Dress Rehearsal"

This is my first year with the choir, but it has been so much fun, that I never want to's almost like a second family.  We laugh and laugh so much every single week, and everyone is "so exuberant" as our choir director put it one night.:)  Anyway, we had a "dress rehearsal" last night, where everyone dressed up in was hilarious!  From Dolly Parton to Granny Hattie to Glenda the Good Witch to Raggedy Ann & Andy to the bride of Frankenstein to the nerd couple, we had a blast!:)  Enjoy the pics....they might give you a giggle or two.  

This is our choir director, how were we supposed to keep a straight face through rehearsal?  

Oh, and when this guy showed up in a completely full set of red long underwear, well, we all just lost it....

Finally, Dan and I went as Little Red Riding Hood and Granny Wolf (yes, I dragged him in on this)....I had a dress for the costume that said one size fits most.....but let's just say it should have read one size fits I had to settle for just the cape (corny, I know).  

It cracks me up how Jaden had to keep looking to make sure it was truly Daddy under that wolf mask....LOL.

For more Friday Funnies, visit Kim at Homesteaders Heart.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Bread in 5 Minutes: Giveaway & Review

Recently, I heard about a couple of books that were supposed to help a person learn to make bread in just five minutes a day; it was supposed to not only help the budget, but the bread would be made from my own hands, which meant that I would know every ingredient that was going into that bread.  So, I decided to reserve the books at my library....I waited, and I waited, but still no books; there were actually 16 holds on one of them.  Was I ever happy when I received both books in the mail from St. Martin's Press.  My goal with the book was to be able to make my own bread, without having to buy it in the store, which can get quite expensive. 

Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day, by Jeff Hertzberg, M.D. and Zoe Francois, seeks to help the reader make their own bread in, literally, five minutes every day.  It is a no-knead, that long and messy step is completely eliminated in the bread making process.  By pre-mixing high-moisture dough (without kneading) and then storing it, daily bread baking becomes an easy activity.  Most of the recipes in the book call for only a small portion of the dough that you are mixing up, and the rest is stored in the refrigerator for other days through the week.  That dough can usually be refrigerated for up to 12-14 days, which gives you time to use it without the hassle of mixing.  

I actually tried The Master Recipe in the book yesterday; it's a recipe for a French boule.  It was the absolute quickest I have ever made bread.  With only 5 ingredients, it was super easy to mix up (no sifting involved either), and then I actually shaped a loaf and baked it, storing the rest of the dough in the refrigerator.  This batch of dough will actually make four 1-pound loaves.  After I mixed the dough, I just had to let that dough rise for about 2 hours.  Then I took my portion of dough out (about a grapefruit-sized piece), and shaped it, leaving that to rise for just a little bit (the book says to let rise for 40 minutes, but I let it go longer because I got busy with other things).  Then all that was left was baking.  Once it was baked, I forgot to take a picture of the finished loaf (I could kick myself), but it was delicious.  It was also really pretty....there's a small decorative step in the recipe to make it look even more professional.  My husband and I always have a hard time making bread that isn't completely dense all the way through, but this was actually really light and good.  It had a great texture to it; he even commented on that last night.  I don't know about you, but there's nothing quite like having the smell of fresh baked bread waft through the house on a cold winter's day, so I'm pretty excited about this book.  It can actually help me to make bread in very little time, which is important to us, as we are so super busy.... 

With recipes for all kinds of professional looking breads, this book is a great find.  There are a few pictures throughout the book, with a section of colored pictures in the very middle.  Here are just a few of the recipes included in this book: 
  • Crusty White Sandwich Loaf
  • Bruschetta
  • Onion Rye
  • Pumpernickel Bread
  • 100% Whole Wheat Sandwich Bread
  • Vermont Cheddar Bread
  • Bagels
  • Pita Bread
  • Pecan Caramel Rolls
  • Chocolate Bread
  • Braided Raspberry Almond Cream Pastry

Another book I received, with the same concept, was Healthy Bread in Five Minutes a Day, by Jeff Hertzberg, M.D. and Zoe Francois.  This book takes the focus and places it on more healthy breads for a healthy lifestyle....but still recipes that you can make in just a short time every day.  It has a section on breads with hidden fruits and vegetables, as well a section for gluten-free recipes.  In front of each book are chapters on ingredients and equipment you will need, as well as a chapter on some of the different techniques that are used throughout the book.  This gives you time to see how it all works before you even start to make a recipe.  It also allows you to see if you need anything before you dive headfirst into a new recipe.  I found, though, that I could use what I had in my kitchen, with just a little improvisation. 

You will find more healthy recipes in this book, including the following:
  • Wreath Bread
  • Cinnamon-Raisin Whole Wheat Bagels
  • Red Beet Buns
  • Zucchini Flatbread
  • Grissini (Olive Oil Bread Sticks)
  • Indian Spiced Whole Grain Doughnuts
  • 100% Whole Wheat Christmas Stollen
  • Pear Tarte Tatin
  • Cinnamon Crescent Rolls
  • Chocolate Espresso Cupcakes
  • 100% Whole Wheat Bread
....and many more.  You can read more about these books on the Artisan Bread website.

You can actually win this copy of Healthy Bread in Five Minutes a Day!  Believe me, I had a hard time choosing which book to give away because both of them are wonderful!  To enter, you can do one or more of the following, below.  Just be sure to enter a separate comment for each thing that you do.  I will choose the winner on Thursday, November 12, using  Check out the following ways to enter:

1) Leave me a comment letting me know what you think about this book and which recipe from above you might try first if you were to win.
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Most of all, have a wonderful day, and be ready for wonderful, fresh-baked bread, easily made, if you're our winner!

(Disclosure: These books were provided to me, free of charge, by St. Martin's Press.)

Things I Love Thursday: Fall

Today was a fun day; it was a field trip day, which meant no schoolwork.  Yea!!!!  I decided to take the boys to the Rutledge Wilson Farm Park, since I've heard so much about it....we had a blast.  We got there, and immediately, the boys saw the barn and silo playground, and they wanted to go climb around and slide down all the slides.

Much to my dismay, Jaden ended up completely soaked on his backside, since it had rained last night.  So, we ended up getting back in the car and running up to Walmart quick to get him a dry pair of pants.  There was an icy wind blowing, so I just couldn't let him walk around soaked, and, of course, I had forgotten to bring an extra pair in the backpack.  

When we came back, we decided to go check out the animals.  They had miniature horses, sheep, cows, turkeys, and chickens.  Jaden was mesmerized by the giant milk cow in the barn.  For some reason, he LOVES cows; he constantly has to moo when we go by any pasture that has anything remotely resembling a cow.  

Then, it was off to the corn maze.

Of course, we had no map or anything, so we wandered aimlessly through the cornmaze, with Jacob and Jaden taking turns leading us.

I finally had to step in and take over, since I knew we'd never get out otherwise. LOL  

Of course, then we had to make our way home, stopping by the pumpkin place, where we got a bunch of pumpkins to carve on Saturday or just set on the front porch and look pretty.  I'm anxious to go back to that farm and check out the bike trails that run through it.  With the colors of the trees quickly fading, winter is coming.  I love the feeling of fall; it's cool and crisp, and it's just a wonderful time of year, my favorite season.

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Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Shine Your Light Wednesdays: My Experience With NTM: Destination Summit

This meme has been so much fun, even though I haven't gotten anyone to participate so far (hint, hint)'s still been so much fun to do.  I love spreading the word about works that are going on that people may not necessarily know a lot about.  It's awesome!  I wish that I could participate and volunteer with every single opportunity, but since I can't do that (seeing as I'm only one person), spreading the word about each one is the next best thing.  Up this week is New Tribes Mission's Summit and Interface programs.  

Back in 1996 (wow, I was so young), I went on a summer missions trip to Papua New Guinea.  (I have to say that some of the pictures here were taken by a friend on that trip, Bruce....who had come with his twin son and daughter.) I don't think I was quite ready for a trip of that magnitude....I don't think I appreciated it as much then as I do now.  Don't get me was the time of my life, but having grown up significantly since then, I am more serious about things now than I was after just graduating from high school.:)  I will never forget that trip.  It was truly a marker in my life that I am so thankful for.  I signed up for the Destination Summit missions trip with New Tribes Mission.  It took months of preparation and planning, but God just brought it all together.  We headed to Hawaii first for a time of being together with our teams and preparation for what lay ahead.  My team was heading to the Sepik region of Papua New Guinea, which is full of rivers and jungles; oh and don't forget mosquitoes, which caused my malaria escapade (that's for another post).:)  We were going to work with missionaries in the Saniyo tribe at Pukapuki (pronounced PooKawPooKee), 

which was a 3 hour boat ride from the grass airstrip where our Cessna took us.  We were there for a little over four weeks, and we were assisting the missionaries with physical work that they needed our help on.  There were three missionary families there at the time, and two of the families were working on translation, getting God's Word translated into the language of the tribe, which is so critical.  Anyway, we helped to clear a road from their unfinished grass airstrip to their houses, and we worked some on the airstrip itself.  When I say "we cleared," I don't mean that we had all the conveniences and tools that we have here.  No, we pretty much worked with our hands and machetes (in fact, I think I still have my machete somewhere, if Dan hasn't carried it off somewhere).  The heat was indescribable....the first week we were there, we would work for a little bit, go jump in the river to cool off.  It was so hot; and really, it was the humidity that got us, along with the fireants.:)  It rained almost every day.  The beauty of that land was so indescribable.  To this day, I can still see us standing on the hill overlooking the jungles and the mountains, with the clouds coming down over some of the land, and just "ooohing and ahhhing" at the untouched beauty.  I could easily imagine that dinosaurs still roamed here....:)  The tribal people were just so beautiful....they were kind and friendly and oh so curious about us. 

The kids were so much fun, even getting into a mud fight with us one day while trying to cut out a tree on the airstrip.  The people would have markets for us, where we could buy things from them, and they loved to bargain.  Even though we couldn't understand each other, it was still good times.:)  I actually have a couple of spears and my canoes hanging in our house, to this day.

We would take short, little trips around that area, all by boat or by foot.  We got to hike through the jungle with some of the tribal women and learn how they harvested their staple food from the trunks of trees, even helping them.  Walking into the area where they worked was quite interesting, since we had to balance on the branches that they had cut down....otherwise, we'd be knee deep....:)

We also got to go on a  pig hunt, where we were hoping to see either a pig or emu....although, we were prepared to climb a tree if necessary, some of us trying to figure out exactly how we were going to get up the trees.  LOL  We got to see the missionaries work, whether it was physical labor, translation work, medical work, etc.  We grew close to the missionaries, getting to know them and their children.  Their work came alive before our very eyes.

After leaving Pukapuki, we headed back to Wewak in northern PNG (where we got to snorkel on a coral reef with the most beautiful fish I have ever seen; yep, that's a small crocodile....) 
and then on to Australia for a few days for some rest and debriefing before heading back to the States. 
We grew very close as a team, so close we were all seriously in tears when we left each other at LAX, upon returning home.  Through this trip, we got to see the behind-the-scenes work that a missionary is involved in.  It was an experience I will never forget.  The benefits and things learned through this experience far outweighed the small, petty annoyances, such as heat and mosquitoes.  In fact, I want to take my children on missions trips.  I want them to see life through how someone else lives and is raised.  I want them to experience the things God has for them....which is why I highly recommend a missions trip for anyone seeking to make a change in their life.  

New Tribes Mission has such trips available.  They not only have the Summit Assist program, where you can go and help the missionaries with jobs that need done (usually in the Latin America, Africa, or Asia-Pacific regions), but they also have their 6-week Interface program.  The Interface program allows you to go to the Highlands of Papua New Guinea for a college-level missions course, only in real life.  It teaches how to interact with tribal people.  

My encouragement to you is not to worry about how much a missions trip might cost; instead, give that concern to God, because when you surrender that to God, He is going to do great things.  He will provide above and beyond anything you ever thought you needed.  I just hope that this post will encourage you to get out there and start looking for that next opportunity for you or your family.  There are so many unreached peoples who need to hear about our Saviour; can you imagine being a part of that mission?

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So Much More Than Sexy by Mark Atteberry

So Much More Than Sexy is a book written to and for women by Pastor Mark Atteberry.  He really takes a bite out of mainstream thinking with his style and personality in his writing.  In the book, he discusses subjects such as how we perceive ourselves when we look in the mirror, plastic surgery, what most men would really rather have in a woman, appropriate dress/style, etc.  A lot of the subject material pertains to single women, who are in the dating realm; but a lot of the material totally relates to married women, as well.  There were things I found I could apply to my own life, both as a woman and a wife.  I found his chapter on Male Repellant to be especially helpful for those who are married.....he is definitely not afraid to say what is on his mind.  I could almost feel his frustration with all of the myths we deal with as women. 

This book will probably either make you angry or make you nod your head in agreement and purpose to be a truly, Godly woman, content with how God has created you.  In reading it, I was so appalled with some of the things that I learned....such as the history behind Girls Gone Wild....and it became so apparent to me how we are just inundated, through everything we see and hear on a daily basis.  We are so inundated with junk, lies, and myths, that after a while, we almost become oblivious to it.  This book is truly a wake-up call.  At times, it felt as if the author was venting his frustration, but the words he writes are truly words that need to be heard in this day and age.  I would definitely recommend this book for every woman.  It has a convicting yet encouraging message.

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

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                    Today's Wild Card author is:

and the book:

Standard Publishing (July 1, 2009)
***Special thanks to Blythe Daniel of The Blythe Daniel Agency, Inc.for sending me a review copy.***


Mark Atteberry has been a minister since 1975, serving at Poinciana Christian Church in Kissimmee, Florida, since 1989. He’s been married to his high school sweetheart, Marilyn, for 32 years. Mark is the author of six books including Free Refill, The 10 Dumbest Things Christians Do, Walking with God on the Road You Never Wanted to Travel (a Retailers’ Choice Award finalist), The Caleb Quest, and The Samson Syndrome(chosen as a Bible study tool by many NFL teams, including the New England Patriots, Philadelphia Eagles, Pittsburgh Steelers, Dallas Cowboys, and Miami Dolphins and used as team Bible study by both 2007 Super Bowl participants, the Indianapolis Colts and the Chicago Bears, during their championship seasons). His books have been endorsed by Karen Kingsbury, Donald Miller, Randy Alcorn, John Maxwell, Barbara Johnson, Angela Thomas, Pat Williams, Steve Green, and others.

Visit the author's website.

Product Details:

List Price: $14.99
Paperback: 208 pages
Publisher: Standard Publishing (July 1, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 078472119X
ISBN-13: 978-0784721193


For Marilyn, Michelle, and Alyssa,

who make me so much more than happy.

Gene Fowler said, “Writing is easy. All you do is stare at a blank sheet of paper until drops of blood form on your forehead.”1 A little melodramatic perhaps. On the other hand, there are days when he doesn’t seem that far off base. Because writing is so hard, you need people in your life who make it easier. I am blessed to have a lot of them. Here are a few I would be ashamed not to mention.

Marilyn, my wife, who helps me in so many ways, I couldn’t begin to enumerate them. As the business aspect of my life accelerates, she keeps me organized and pointed in the right direction without ever letting any of it get in the way of our romance.

Lee Hough, my agent, who represents me with integrity and class. Long ago we moved beyond being author and agent and just became friends. We spend as much time laughing, telling stories, and sharing prayer requests as we do talking about my book projects.

Dr. Les Hardin, my friend and “Bible scholar of choice” when I need some deeper insights into a difficult passage of Scripture. He’s forgotten more about the Bible than I will ever know.

Dale Reeves, Lindsay Black, Sarah Felkey, and Lynn Pratt, my friends at Standard Publishing, who are true professionals in every sense of the word . . . and fun too. They somehow plucked a concept out of my head and turned it into something you can hold in your hands.

Diane Stortz, my editor, who blew me away with her keen insights. She understood what I was aiming at in this book and helped me zero in on the target.

Kelsey Kingsbury (yes, that Kingsbury), who wrote the foreword. Kelsey is a beautiful young woman who epitomizes the message of this book. I am so honored that her first published words are in my book. I doubt they’ll be her last.

Karen Kingsbury, a dear friend who gets the credit (or the blame) for my being a published author.

And you, my readers, who always inspire me with your kind e-mails.


I grew up always performing. As a little girl I would gracefully dance across our living room floor while loudly singing a beautiful song to Jesus. I really believed that I would grow up to become a beautiful princess, meet my perfect and handsome prince, and we would live happily ever after. And I still do. The Bible says, “‘I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jeremiah 29:11, NIV). My parents gave this verse to me when I was a little girl, and I still cling to the powerful message it holds. God truly has an amazing plan for my future handsome prince and me as long as I keep my eyes toward him.

When I was a freshman in high school, I made the cheerleading team, along with all of my very best friends. I soon realized that others around me considered cheerleaders as uneducated and simply sexy. But I desired to be an example of how a cheerleader—or any woman—really can be so much more than sexy.

Being female isn’t easy. Getting ready in the morning can be a huge battle, and ladies, you know exactly what I am talking about! First we take a shower, then we attempt to blow-dry and style our hair, and last but not least is putting on makeup and choosing an outfit—and don’t forget, we need to complete this mission in warp time. The time it takes a guy to get ready is no time at all (and trust me, I have five brothers!).

Women face a lot of pressure to look a certain way. We live in a celebrity-obsessed world, and we tend to look up to the stick-thin models we read about in gossip magazines. This unhealthy way of thinking is completely damaging to us personally and, in the end, to our society. I have gone through the many ups and downs of being a young woman. I’ve had guy problems, makeup problems, days when I felt fat, clothes problems, cravings for material things, and all of these incidents have left me feeling empty and never good enough.

Mark Atteberry’s book explains the importance of beauty coming not only from the outside but most significantly from inside, from our hearts. (My dad has always called me his precious princess, and I think all Christian women should look at themselves as God’s princesses.) While reading this book, I found that every chapter delivers an amazing truth I needed to hear. The way Mark breaks down these everyday issues of always trying to be sexy is brilliant. He gives us an inside look at a guy’s brain and promises us that there are real godly guys holding out for you and me. This book is a great reminder for all women to always hold a high standard for ourselves when dealing with men, dating, marriage, and especially our self-image. God made us in his perfect image; let’s cling to that truth. Whatever our age, we are so much more than sexy!

In God’s love,

Kelsey Kingsbury

daughter of #1 inspirational fiction author Karen Kingsbury


“All men think about is sex!”

You’ve heard it a thousand times.

If you’re a woman, you’ve probably said it a thousand times.

But I’m here to tell you it isn’t true. My purpose in this book is to slide a stick of dynamite under this long-held misconception and light the fuse. I think it’s high time to explode this lie and let you in on a dynamic, life-changing secret: millions of men in this world are looking for so much more than sex.

Oh, I can understand why you wouldn’t think so. Sadly, there are just enough classless, immature men out there to make it seem true, and pop culture constantly portrays men in the tawdriest terms possible. In the movie Bruce Almighty, for example, Jim Carrey plays an ordinary guy who gets to possess all the powers of God. And what does he do? Wipe out poverty? Put an end to oppression? Bring peace to the Middle East? Of course not! Instead, he sends a perfectly timed gust of wind so he can get a peek under a pretty girl’s skirt. Then with the snickering glee of a hormone-crazed teenager, he has the brilliant idea of making his wife’s breasts larger.

Tacky, you say?

Of course, but what do you expect? He’s a guy!

Or maybe you remember the beer ad that shows two guys sitting in a crowded bar, dreaming up the perfect Miller Lite commercial. Their naughty little minds conjure up a couple of gorgeous women who start arguing about whether the beer is better tasting or less filling. Before you can say bimbo, the two women are pulling hair, ripping clothes, and tumbling nearly naked into a public fountain. As the scene fades, our typical males are shown back in the bar, nodding in hearty approval, hefting their brewskies, and pronouncing their fantasy a true work of art.

Oh yes, I can understand why you would think that sex is all men care about. But speaking as a man—and one who’s met and talked to thousands of other men across the country—I’m convinced there’s a lie being perpetrated here. I believe that Satan, the father of lies (John 8:44), has three reasons for working overtime to hoodwink you.

First, he wants to sow seeds of disrespect toward men in the hearts of women of all ages. God has given men great leadership responsibilities in the home, the church, and the world. Therefore, anything Satan can do to make it harder for women and girls to respect men strikes a mighty blow against God’s plan.

Satan also wants to sow seeds of sensuality in our culture. If he can convince you—especially when you’re young—that sex is all men care about, it’s inevitable that talking, acting, and dressing provocatively will seem the thing to do. And I can’t think of a word that better describes our culture than provocative. Bare midriffs, plunging necklines, and low-riding, skin-tight jeans are the order of the day. Even preteen girls dress (and sometimes act) like the pop culture divas they idolize.

Third, Satan wants to sow seeds of hopelessness in marriages. Every time a clueless husband is preoccupied, inattentive, or rude all day long and then suddenly morphs into Prince Charming when he crawls under the covers, he unwittingly reinforces the man-as-insensitive-sex-maniac stereotype that culture has already planted in his wife’s mind. She may give in to his advances, but it will likely be with a halfhearted, let’s-just-hurry-up-and-get-it-over-with attitude. Pile enough of those heartless, robotic exercises on top of each other, and any woman would feel empty and hopeless.

When I started writing books several years ago, I never dreamed I’d write one for women. I’m not into Bath & Body Works, HGTV, or any of the other girlie things I see my wife and daughter enjoying. To be honest, I don’t even pretend to understand women. After being married for more than thirty years, raising a daughter, and being a pastor to thousands of women, I still find them infinitely and wonderfully mysterious. I wholeheartedly agree with author Angela Thomas, who writes, “The woman is a mystery that the man can’t unlock. Her desires seem to him like a moving target.”2

But that doesn’t mean I’m blind.

As a pastor I’ve been observing this devilish lie about men and watching it undermine God’s plan for male-female relationships for a long, long time. I’ve finally come to the place where I have to speak up.

In this book I’m going to challenge you to reconsider some things you may have always believed about men and the best way to interact with them. No, I’m not going to try to sell you on the notion that all men are gentlemen. Clearly, many are not. But I do know without a doubt that there are still a lot of us left who can see beyond the swell of a woman’s breast.

Imagine how this new understanding could profoundly change your life.

For one thing, it would take some pressure off. It would allow you to be more real, to concentrate more on the development of your inner qualities rather than always thinking you have to compete with the pretty blonde in the deep V-neck who works in your boyfriend’s or husband’s office. For another, your relationship with your man could be invigorated if, instead of trying to breathe new life into your wheezing relationship with skimpy outfits and the latest perfumes, you started to build some new, more meaningful bridges from your heart to his.

If you’re skeptical, I’m not surprised. I know that many women have experienced the very worst that testosterone has to offer. If you’ve pretty much lost all respect for men and are thinking this book is a monumental waste of paper, I plead with you to keep an open mind.

I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with being sexy. (Actually, I’m very much in favor of it!) I’m just saying that many women aim too low . . . that there’s something much higher and much more wonderful for you to shoot for.

Something millions of guys would give anything to find.

Something so much more than sexy.


The Myths in the Mirror

Tracy, I’m in love with you, no matter what you weigh.

—Link Larkin in Hairspray

I wouldn’t want to be a woman.

No way.

I wouldn’t be able to take the pressure to always look beautiful. A guy can have a paunch, wrinkles, thinning hair, gray hair, or even no hair, and still be cast as the romantic lead in a Hollywood blockbuster, but any woman with the same physical traits will end up playing the senile grandma with an afghan over her lap, spitting out saucy one-liners between slobbers.

And this foolishness all starts at birth.

Just listen to those proud relatives pressing their noses up against the hospital nursery window. If the baby is wrapped in a pink blanket, they’ll call her beautiful, gorgeous, a little doll, or a real heartbreaker one of these days. But if the baby’s wrapped in blue, they’ll likely predict a college scholarship for the little linebacker. I have no doubt that if you wrapped the girl baby in blue and the boy baby in pink, you’d get the same color-coded comments.

And the pressure builds from there.

It isn’t long before a little girl becomes enamored with the Disney princesses, all beautifully and flawlessly rendered, and ends up shrieking with delight when her parents give her princess paraphernalia for Christmas. You can bet that even before the wrapping paper is carted away, she’ll be stylin’—click-clacking through the house in her plastic high heels and sparkly dress, soaking up oohs and aahs from everyone except her bratty little brother, who’s too busy blowing things up on his new computer game to notice.

Then of course, there’s high school, where so much of the popularity pecking order is based on looks. It’s the pretty girls who are the best bets to be cheerleaders, homecoming queens, and Saturday-night dates for quarterbacks and cleanup hitters.

And don’t even get me started on the many doodads women use on a daily basis to ready themselves for public scrutiny. We guys only need five things in our bathrooms: a comb, a razor, a toothbrush, some toilet paper, and the sports page. We can knock off our whiskers with a dull razor, run a comb through our hair (even this is optional nowadays), brush our teeth, and we’re good to go. Ten minutes tops. But you are expected to address the cosmetic needs of every feature, from head to toe.

The hair has to be perfectly mussed.

The eyebrows have to be plucked or waxed.

The eyes themselves have to be lined and shadowed.

The nose has to be powdered so it won’t shine.

The lips have to be glossed so they will.

The ears have to have the proper bangle (or two or three) dangling from them.

The bra has to perform miracles.

The outfit has to coordinate.

And the shoes have to be cute or sexy. (It doesn’t matter if they cause excruciating pain, just so they’re cute or sexy.)

Finally, there’s the weight issue. It’s much easier to be a little overweight if you’re a guy. Among other things, you’ll be called strapping instead of fat (I don’t know what strapping means, but it definitely sounds better than fat), you’ll get to hit cleanup on the softball team, and no one will dare pick a fight with you—because heavy guys are assumed to be tough, whether they are or not.

But if you’re what the fashion mags call curvy or plus size, the pressure’s on . . . to buy a ThighMaster, to eat like a rabbit, to actually use your ThighMaster, to eat like a rabbit, to walk twenty miles a day, to eat like a rabbit, to sweat to the oldies, and to eat like a rabbit. If you fail to do these things with the fervor of an Olympic athlete in training, or—Heaven forbid—if you’re ever seen eating a doughnut in public, someone (probably a woman who’s never had a weight problem) will comment on how sad it is that you’ve given up or let yourself go.

Somebody, somewhere dubbed women the fair sex. I think maybe the unfair sex would be more appropriate because of the outrageous pressure you are under to live up to culture’s current definition of beauty. I say “current definition” because the standard constantly changes.

The very first Miss America, sixteen-year-old Margaret Gorman, won her crown in 1921. I assume men back then considered Margaret to be a babe, yet any man looking at her picture today would have a hard time controlling snickers.

In the 1950s, all eyes were on a voluptuous Marilyn Monroe. Ten years later, all the magazine covers featured ninety-five-pound Twiggy. Fifty-year-old women were once considered way over the hill, but now women such as Michelle Pfeiffer, Oprah Winfrey, and Lauren Hutton—all over fifty—epitomize beauty, grace, and style. In fact, in 2005 Big magazine invited Lauren Hutton, at the age of sixty-one, to appear in its pages nude, something that would have been unthinkable a few years earlier.

No one can predict how beauty will be defined by our culture ten or twenty years from now. Who knows? Shaved heads might be the hot new trend. Absolutely nothing will surprise me. The only thing I’ll bet on is that whatever culture is demanding, women will still feel pressure to try and deliver it.

[A head] Mirror Myths

Lest you misunderstand, let me say emphatically that I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with a woman wanting to look and feel attractive. In the musical West Side Story, Maria sings with exuberance about how pretty she feels. It’s a joyous, refreshingly innocent moment in the story. There’s no haughtiness. No panting sexuality. Just a young woman experiencing what every woman seems to long for. “I truly believe that the longing to be known as beautiful is part of our design as women,” Angela Thomas writes. “God put us together this way on purpose. We are wired to long for beauty and to be known as beautiful.”3 Nothing in my experience with women would lead me to disagree.

And yet . . . I know that what you believe when you look in the mirror can be a myth. In fact, there are three spiritually and emotionally debilitating mirror myths I’d like to explode right now.

[B head] Myth #1: What You See Is What You Are

Wicked Queen Jezebel knew her days as the matriarch of Israel were numbered (2 Kings 9). Her idiot husband, Ahab, was dead, and God had chosen a young man named Jehu to replace her son Joram as king. And not only had God chosen Jehu to be king, he instructed Jehu to wipe out Jezebel and her entire family as punishment for their many sins.

Jezebel knew that Jehu and his men were coming. They had killed her sons and she was next. So what did she do? Run for her life? Assemble her bodyguards and batten down the hatches? Drink the Kool-Aid? No. “She painted her eyelids and fixed her hair and sat at a window” (v. 30).

Interesting, don’t you think?

Did she get herself all dolled up in an effort to seduce Jehu and perhaps change his mind about killing her? Possibly, but I doubt it. More likely she simply thought, If I’m going out, I’m going to go out looking good! And keep in mind, she was the queen. She would have owned the finest garments and the most expensive jewels. When she put the finishing touches on her do and pirouetted in front of the mirror, I’m sure she was pleased with what she saw.

But she was still a hag, and everybody knew it.

A beautiful face or body doesn’t make you a beautiful person, because your character is always going to trump your looks. Think about Britney Spears, once considered one of the hottest-looking females in America. There was even a TV commercial that showed a geeky, fast-food burger flipper allowing his burgers to burst into flames while he stared, open mouthed, at an overhead TV monitor where a scantily clad Britney was bumping and grinding like a cheap stripper.

But that was before her life began to unravel.

Britney’s foolish choices and reckless—even brainless—behavior made her a national joke. Her endorsement contracts and public appearances dried up, not because she suddenly became physically ugly, but because her character trumped her looks.

Have you ever wondered why many of the most beautiful Hollywood actors and actresses can’t stay married? You’d think if a guy was fortunate enough to marry a glamorous woman with centerfold looks . . . or if a woman snagged a hunky athlete or matinee idol, they’d never want to let go. Yet many such marriages last only a year or two and often end with much bitterness and hateful mudslinging.

Once again, character trumps looks. The person hasn’t been born who is gorgeous enough to overcome a corrupt heart.

Mark it down: what you see when you look in a mirror is not what you are. What’s in your heart is what you are. That’s why wise King Solomon did not say, “Above all else, make sure your eyeliner isn’t smudged and there’s no lipstick on your teeth.” Instead, he said, “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life” (Proverbs 4:23).

[B head] Myth #2: What You See Is What Others See

Check out these words from plastic surgeon Michelle Copeland. I found them right at the beginning of chapter 1 of her book Change Your Looks, Change Your Life:

Take a long, honest look in the mirror. You can do it for real (turn on that harsh overhead light and peel off some clothing), but my bet is that you’ve done it often enough to know what it is about your body or face that you’d like to change.

What is it, for you? Maybe you’ve caught sight of that wattle that blurs your chin line (or worse, that hangs over your crisp white collar) too many times. Maybe it’s the crow’s-feet that grab makeup and make a spray of fright lines at the corners of your eyes. Maybe it’s your nose or earlobes, both of which sag as we age. Maybe it’s your “Hi Janes” (the fleshy underside of the arm that continues to wiggle after you’ve stopped waving hello to your friend Jane); do they make you avoid wearing your favorite sleeveless blouse or halter top? Maybe it’s your breasts—how far down has gravity pulled them? Maybe it’s your stomach—are you willing to expose your midriff? . . . Maybe it’s your hips: Is there no A-line skirt out there that can hide hips that bear witness to every Krispy Kreme you’ve wolfed down? Maybe it’s those pesky spider veins, crisscrossing the backs of your legs like road maps of the East Coast. I could go on and on. . . .

That’s the bad news. But we’re positive thinkers here, and we’re going to leave harsh reality behind. Instead, let’s conjure that wonderful phrase again: “What if?”4

This does indeed seem to be how many of you look at yourselves. You ignore the big picture (which can be very attractive) and become obsessed with the details (which are never ever going to be perfect). I’ve listened to many beautiful women put themselves down because of this or that flaw. Sometimes I’ve stared and thought, Huh? What are you talking about? I literally could not see what they believed to be so obvious.

I once heard a young woman talking about how fat she was and how she needed to go on a diet. I asked her how much she weighed (yes, she was a good friend or I wouldn’t have dared), and she said, “I’m up to 120.” I shook my head. “Do you realize how ridiculous that sounds?” I asked her. “There’s not another person on this planet who would call you fat.” And she began to argue with me, explaining that her clothes were tight and she had flab on her rear end and the backs of her thighs.

Please get this: what you see when you look in a mirror is not what everyone else sees. (Unless, of course, you’re the world’s tallest woman, but that’s another story.) Most people—guys especially—see the big picture. Yes, we are famous for checking out certain parts of the female anatomy, but that’s in our God-given DNA. I still contend that most of us are not looking for or expecting perfection. We’re smart enough to know that the glossy centerfold has had her pimples and moles and cellulite airbrushed into oblivion . . . and without her makeup on looks pretty much like any other woman.

I believe one of the best and healthiest things you could do for yourself would be to give up the microscopic scrutiny of every square inch of your body . . . and the whining and complaining that go along with it. I also believe God would appreciate not having to listen to you dis his handiwork. Remember, that nose you hate is a one-of-a-kind original designed by the master artist himself.

[B head] Myth #3: What You See Makes or Breaks Your Love Life

The movie version of the Tony Award–winning Broadway musical Hairspray released in theaters all across America in July 2007. My wife, Marilyn, loves musicals and so do I, so we were among the first to see it. We enjoyed it, but what really blew us away was how stridently it contradicts the message pop culture tries to hammer into our heads.

Set in 1962, the story focuses on Tracy Turnblad, a high school girl with big hair and even bigger dreams. She fantasizes about being one of the featured dancers on a locally produced American Bandstand–style television show. She also happens to think the lead dancer, Link Larkin, is the hunk to end all hunks. But alas, Tracy is considerably overweight. All the other dancers on the show are slim and trim, especially Link’s girlfriend, a snooty, drop-dead gorgeous blonde who happens to be the lead dancer. Even Tracy’s overweight mother (played hilariously by John Travolta) discourages her from trying out for a spot on the show, because she fears Tracy will only be humiliated. And as far as Tracy’s crush on Link goes, everybody knows a good-looking guy would never be interested in a girl with a weight problem.

But two hours and several production numbers later, the movie closes with Tracy and Link kissing center screen while snooty Miss Drop-Dead Gorgeous pouts in the background. Final score: size 16–1, size 5–0.

Unrealistic, you say?

I beg to differ.

Open your eyes and look around. The world is full of Tracy Turnblads, women who are not prototypical beauties according to society’s standards but who more than make up for it with character and personality. They often end up riding into the sunset with the love of their lives, while more than a few so-called beauties in this world spend their lives bouncing from relationship to relationship and never find true happiness.

The other day Marilyn and I were in a restaurant when a family of four walked in and took a table nearby. Dad was a handsome guy, fit and clean-cut. The kids were preschoolers, cute as they could be. And mom was, well . . . let’s just say she wasn’t going to win the Mrs. America pageant anytime soon. But there she sat, with a handsome husband, two cute kids, and a smile on her face.

I looked at Marilyn and said, “There sits Tracy Turnblad.”

Don’t think for a minute that because you aren’t centerfold material you have no shot at love. It just isn’t true. The next time you’re in a restaurant, at a ball game, or strolling though the mall, just look around at the couples. You’ll see Tracy Turnblads everywhere.

[A head] Drawing the Line

This morning when I signed on to AOL, a link to seven “beauty secrets” for women appeared. With everything you’ve just read fresh on my mind, I had to click on it. What I found were some very interesting products. Among them:

Control-It! Omega3 Nail Biting Cream. It’s odorless, invisible, and will not stain. But it tastes bad. No way you’re going to munch your pinkies with this stuff on. They say it’s guaranteed to give you beautiful nails in no time. No self-discipline required.

Fake Bake, Sunless and Skinny. The name says it all. It’s a cream that promises to tan, firm, and tone you all at the same time while you kick back and relax. Must be the seaweed it contains that does the trick.

But my favorite was Poutrageous Lip Plumper, “the answer to achieving the perfectly plump pout seen in all the magazines.” That claim alone should guarantee millions in sales.

Knowing where to draw the line in the pursuit of beauty and romantic fulfillment is one of the biggest challenges you face as a woman. All kinds of products, treatments, and surgeries promise to work miracles on your appearance, and their suppliers will try everything they can think of (including trashing your self-esteem) to get you to fork over your hard-earned money. Let’s face it. It’s in their interest to keep you believing those mirror myths I just addressed. The uglier you think you are . . . the more desperate you feel . . . the more you believe your looks will determine your happiness . . . the more you feel compelled to compete with that saucy little number in the next cubicle—the better the chance they have of getting into your pocketbook.

You simply must draw a line.

No, I’m not saying your bathroom should look like a man’s. I realize a girl needs her stuff. But at some point you need to slam on the brakes and say, “Enough is enough. I can be happy, feel good about myself, and have an interesting love life whether or not I achieve the perfectly plump pout seen in all the magazines.”

The challenge is knowing where to draw the line.

Allow me to offer three suggestions.

[B head] Suggestion #1: Embrace Reality

Do not, under any circumstances, deny who and what you are. Not long ago MTV created a show called I Want a Famous Face. It featured young people who were willing to undergo plastic surgery in order to look like their favorite celebrities. Ridiculous, you say? Indeed! But before you bang the gavel and pronounce yourself innocent, realize that you can make the same mistake in nonsurgical ways.

In her book God Chicks, Holly Wagner talks about the time she abandoned her God-given nature in an effort to become like a couple of older women who were successful Bible teachers:

I imitated these women in their teaching styles, their mannerisms, and their dress—all because I felt that if they were successful, then I needed to become like them. What an idiot I was!! One day as I was wrestling with my fifth pair of panty hose, and I was complaining about the sadistic man (I’m sure it was a man!) who invented them, I heard the Spirit of God laughing at me. (He does laugh, you know!) I felt that God was asking me what I was doing. I assured Him that I was getting dressed so I could go teach, and I was putting on panty hose because my two heroes wore panty hose and I needed to be like them in order to fulfill my destiny on earth. The Father quickly assured me that He didn’t need me to be like them. They were fine being themselves, and He didn’t need anyone else doing their jobs. He did, however, have a job for me to do on the planet, and He would empower me as soon as I was comfortable being who He created me to be.5

It’s not unusual to see both men and women living in denial when it comes to their appearance. The guy who wears a severe comb-over or the woman who’s still squeezing herself into size 8 jeans even though she hasn’t actually been a size 8 since the first Bush became president—both are living in fantasy worlds. So is the sixty-year-old grandma with bleached blonde hair and short shorts. So is the teenage girl with the bare midriff who looks like she just swallowed a football. Holly Wagner says she sensed God laughing as she, a non-panty-hose kind of girl, wrestled her panty hose like a python.

I can buy the notion of him chuckling at some of our fashion misadventures, but I can’t help wondering if there comes a point where he finds it all a little heartbreaking. When we refuse to be ourselves, aren’t we saying something about his handiwork?

I speak for a whole bunch of guys when I say that a woman who recognizes and embraces her reality is far more attractive than a woman who goes around every day wearing what amounts to a Halloween costume.

[B head] Suggestion #2: Build Your Look from the Inside Out

The apostle Peter wrote, “Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God” (1 Peter 3:3, 4). When Peter says not to be concerned about outward beauty, I don’t believe he means you should get up and go to work with bed head and bad breath. He’s simply saying that true beauty flows from the inside out.

Isn’t it true that people get better looking on the outside when you get to know them and realize they are beautiful on the inside? And it works in reverse too. I’ve met many beautiful women who, when I realized they were self-centered or immoral, suddenly started looking very ordinary. I believe this explains how women who might be considered homely or unattractive end up having extraordinary romantic relationships. What they lack in outer beauty, they more than make up for with inner beauty. And because men are spiritual beings as well as physical, we’re powerfully drawn to those beautiful inner qualities.

Sadly, even though good character is the greatest beauty secret of them all, you will probably never see it listed alongside the lip plumpers and tanning creams, online or anywhere else. Oh, and one more thing—I don’t know what a six-month supply of Poutrageous Lip Plumper costs, but I know that good character is free.

[B head] Suggestion #3: Be Modest

I’ll talk more about this in the next chapter, but it bears mentioning here. As you try to decide where to draw the line in your pursuit of beauty and romantic fulfillment, you’re going to be tempted to believe that tighter and skimpier is sexier. Trust me when I tell you that every day we guys see women we wish would put more clothes on.

When I see a woman dressed immodestly, I wonder if she’s trying to fill a void in her life. Is she feeling insignificant and crying out to be noticed? Is loneliness driving her to pull out all the stops in an effort to snag a companion? Do the lustful stares of strangers help her stave off the whispers of tattered self-esteem? Perhaps not in every case, but it isn’t unusual for inner struggles to produce highly visible attitudes and behaviors.

The apostle Paul wrote, “I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do” (1 Timothy 2:9, 10). I once heard a woman who had just read those verses say, “It sounds like God wants us all to be frumpy.” (By frumpy she meant matronly, unattractive, the opposite of sexy.) This is a classic example of how Satan has brainwashed us. The very notion that modesty isn’t sexy has the devil’s fingerprints all over it. I’m convinced that there are millions of men who actually prefer a classy, modestly dressed woman to one who looks cheap and trashy. And the men who don’t aren’t worth your time anyway.

Jesus said, “The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you” (John 15:19). This business of coming out of the world is the real issue here. It could mean different things to different people, but for a woman in our modern culture it certainly means wrestling with that image in the mirror. And wrestling might even be an understatement if you’ve been plugged into the world’s mind-set your whole life and are just now starting to realize that God has a different plan for you. Breaking free of culture’s grip and adopting a whole new way of thinking, dressing, and acting might be the biggest challenge you’ll ever face. Old habits die kicking and screaming.

But they do die if someone cares enough to kill them.

And they need to die if you want to be free.

As long as you allow the myths in the mirror to dictate the way you dress, act, and feel about yourself, you will be ruling out a world of wonderful possibilities. You might feel that the more you doll yourself up, the more your horizons expand. But I believe the opposite is true. The more makeup you layer on, the shorter your hemline gets, the more risqué your conversations become, the fewer decent men will be interested in you. Oh sure, you’ll grab their attention; but just remember, the monkeys at the zoo grab their attention too. That doesn’t mean they want to take one home.

You have a choice. As a woman, you can work to become what culture says you ought to be or what God says you ought to be. Ultimately, your choice and your future will be determined by what you believe when you stand in front of that mirror.
So Much More Than Sexy

Do you feel anxious about your looks? Is there something (or maybe more than one thing) about your looks that you’ve always hated? Do you have a tendency to compare yourself to other women? What’s the most radical thing (funny or serious) you’ve ever done to try to improve your looks?

Do you agree that character is the greatest beauty secret of them all? Can you name people who have become more beautiful in your eyes as you have gotten to know their character? What improvements could you make in your character that might make you more beautiful?

Read 1 Peter 3:3, 4. Up to this point in your life, have you worked harder on your looks or your inner qualities? What are some specific inner qualities you could cultivate that would make you more beautiful?

So Much More Than Sexy

Mark Atteberry

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Copyright © 2009 by Mark Atteberry

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Tuesday, October 27, 2009

TOS Crew: ABC Teach

Homeschooling sometimes involves stepping back and taking time to just review over concepts that are just not clicking.  Sometimes this takes a bit of creativity on my part as the Mom, and that can be one of the hardest things, is just finding a way to help make it click in their brains.  Recently, we were given the opportunity to review ABC Teach with the Crew. 
ABC Teach is full of worksheets and resources that can easily be printed off and used along with our daily lessons.  They have over 6,000 printables on their free side, and they have over 30,000 printables on their paid side.  That was a lot of resources at my fingertips.  

I bet you can guess which part I went into first.....yep, the math printables.  I was able to generate worksheets for Jacob to review his addition/subtraction facts.  I was even able to print off a quick game for us to play in math, Math Star.  We both enjoyed this game, and it just gave us some "fun" math time.   Now, not only can you just automatically print off a ready-made worksheet, but you can use the ABC tools to create your own version of a worksheet, and there are video tutorials on the site to help you do that.

ABC Teach doesn't just offer math worksheets, though.  They have many different categories that you can choose from for your printable needs, whether it be worksheets, clipart, games, or even teaching helps/resources.  Here are a few of the categories on their site for paid members:
  • Art and Music
  • Book Units
  • Border Papers
  • Clipart
  • Graphic Organizers
  • Handwriting
  • Holiday/Seasonal
  • Homeschooling and Parent Resources
  • Language Arts
  • Languages/ESL
  • Math
  • Montessori Materials
  • Shape Books
  • Social Studies
  • Think Green, Teach Green
...and there are many more categories.  

Their free side also has many resources, including some of the following:
  • Reading Comprehension
  • Subjects, like Math, Phonics, Word Walls, Writing, Art, etc.
  • Holidays, Months, & Seasons
  • Homeschoolers & Parents
  • Flashcards
  • Fun Activities
  • Think Green, Teach Green
...and many, many more. 

The worksheets come for all ages, Pre-K/Elementary Education/Middle School/Junior High.  A one-year membership is $40, and you can watch a video that will take you through what you would receive.  In my opinion, if your child needs the extra help with his subjects, or even if you just want to have these resources at your fingertips when you need them, then this is a wonderful site to join; but for myself and my family, even though $40 is relatively inexpensive, I would rather try to use their free resources and try to find other free online resources when possible, since it's important for us to really budget out what we spend on our homeschooling needs each year.

To read more reviews, check out the TOS Homeschool Crew Blog.

(Disclosure: I was provided with this free resource by ABC Teach, in association with the TOS Homeschool Crew.)      

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